and sometimes we argue because we are afraid to truly fight.

funny isn’t it?  words are so meaningless.  the true fights, the honest to god struggles, they happen regardless of what is said.  doesn’t matter what you say, or say away.  the fight is what happens.  the fight is what means, and defines new meaning.  

and the argument pulls the meaning away from itself. puts it back into debate, into meaninglessness. and we continue to argue in the meaninglessness until we lose the fear to fight.  

sometimes we fight for the sake of argument.